Ngokuqinisekileyo wonke umntu ukhe wacinga ukuba yintoni u Yehova ubungakanani bepenisi efanelekileyo ukwanelisa umntu obhinqileyo. Yinto amadoda onke aphambene ngayo. Cinga malunga nokuba ilungu lakho lide kwaye libanzi ngokwaneleyo kangangokuba umfazi uyothuka xa eyibona kwaye angamshiya anelisekile. Kwaye njengokuba indoda inokulithanda ibhinqa elinamabele amakhulu okanye impundu eyakheke kakuhle, nabasetyhini bathanda amadoda anepenisi enkulu.
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Ubudlelwane phakathi kobukhulu nobude
Baninzi abantu basetyhini abenza ingxelo malunga nobungakanani obufanelekileyo bepenisi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngabo abanokuthetha kunye nabo bafumana (okanye hayi) uyolo. Ayifani nokuba nepipi ende kakhulu kodwa ibhityile kunokuba nayo imfutshane kodwa ingqindilili. Umhlaba ophakathi uhlala uchanekile ngakumbi. Kufuneka kwakhona kukhankanywe ukuba kwimibala eyahlukileyo kwaye, xa unikwe ukhetho, abasetyhini bakhetha ubukhulu kubungakanani.
Siza kubona iimeko ezifanelekileyo ekufuneka zihlangatyezwe lilungu lobudoda ukuze owasetyhini aneliseke ngokupheleleyo:
- Kufuneka ibe lilungu lobudoda elinesiqu esomeleleyo kunye nobukhulu. Akukho ninzi enye okanye encinci enye.
- Ukwanelisa, kufuneka inike uyolo kodwa ngaphandle kokulimaza. Ngale mfuneko sisusa zonke iipenisi ezincinci okanye ezincinci ezinganiki lonwabo ngokwaneleyo emfazini okanye ezo zinkulu kakhulu ezinika iingxaki ngakumbi kunokonwaba.
- Kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abakhetha incanca enkulu kuba nje ukubenza kuyenza ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, ichanekile ngakumbi ukuba inye phakathi kobunzima nobude, njengoko uninzi lubanga njalo.
Ubungakanani bepenisi efanelekileyo yabasetyhini
Kukho amanqaku okumakishwa ngamawaka kunye namawaka ophando olwenziwe kwabasetyhini ababeka iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zepenisi kuhlelo. Olu luhlu luchazwe ngobungakanani bepenis kunye nobude bobude kunye ne-avareji yezona zimvo ziqhelekileyo kwabo bafazi baphononongiweyo. Ke ngoko, obo bude kunye nobukhulu obukhankanyiweyo njenge "size efanelekileyo" rhoqo, kuya kuba lula ukuba zichaneke.
Kwelinye icala, kukwakho neepenise ezinokuphela kwezinto ezimbini eziguqukayo kwindlela elungileyo kodwa enye iphambukile. Ezi penise zithathwa njengezamkelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngelishwa, kukwakho neepenise ezimbini ezinokungazaliseki. Njengesiqhelo, ezompipi zideliwe kwaye, kumaxesha amaninzi, zibangela ukwenzakala okanye ukudakumba emadodeni.
Kwitheyibhile uyabona ukuba, ngokuxhomekeke kubukhulu kunye nemilinganiselo yobude, sisondela kufutshane nobungakanani bepenisi kubafazi. Kukho iindidi ezininzi zeteers zokuhlela ubungakanani. Sifumanisa ezo zingonelisi kwaye abafazi ngekhe bakhethe umhlaba. Ezintle ziindlela ezamkelweyo. Emva koko siqhubeka nezonelisayo, ezizezona zihlala zifumaneka. Siyaqhubeka nalawo anelisayo kodwa anokuphucuka kwaye, ekugqibeleni, yipenisi efanelekileyo.
Iziphumo zetheyibhile
Emva kokuhlalutya kakuhle itafile, sinokukhupha olu lwazi lulandelayo:
- Kukho iipenisi ezinde ubude bazo bufutshane, kodwa bugqithisile kubukhulu. Ezi penises zithathwa njengezintle. Nangona kunjalo, ayizizo zonke iintandokazi zabasetyhini. Iyabonwabisa kwaye bayayifeza imisebenzi yabo, kodwa akukho kwimbonakalo okanye kubunzulu ngokwaneleyo.
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukho iipenisi ezichasene ngokupheleleyo. Kukho ezinde kakhulu kodwa zibhityile. Kule meko, zithathwa njengezithandekayo, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba zikwimeko efanelekileyo okanye ikhethiweyo.
- Abo penises nge I-19 cm ubude kunye ne-15 cm ubukhulu zezona zisondeleyo kwezo zithathwa njengemilinganiselo efanelekileyo. Zingaphuculwa, kodwa zithathwa njengezonelisayo kakhulu. Ukuba indoda inepenisi yobukhulu obu, ayifanele ikhathazeke, ngakumbi ukufuna ukufezekisa okungakumbi kukuchukumisa ukugqibelela ngaphandle kweziphumo ezahlukeneyo.
- Umndilili ophakathi kokuchanekileyo nolwanelisayo yeyona ndawo ixhaphakileyo. Lowo uyi-15 cm ubude kwaye uyi-14 cm ubukhulu. Ezi penise zezona zixhaphakileyo kwaye zilingana ngokugqibeleleyo.
- Iipenisi ezingaphantsi kwe-12 cm ubude kunye ne-11 cm ubukhulu zithathwa njengezingonelisi. Akukho mfazi uya kubheja kubo.
- Kuyafana nezo penise zide kakhulu okanye zibanzi kwaye zithande ukuba yingxaki yokulalana.
Izigqibo
Ubungakanani obufanelekileyo bepenisi abunangqiqo. Ngokwedatha efunyenwe kwizifundo ezininzi, Umndilili waseSpain uyi-13,48 cm ubude. Ezona meko zixhaphakileyo zepenise zezi ziphakathi kokuchanekileyo nokwanelisayo ngomlinganiso we-15 cm ubude kunye ne-14 cm ubukhulu.
Ukuba ukwelinye uluhlu olwanelisayo okanye olwanelisayo kakhulu, unokuba nokuzola ngakumbi, kuba unokuninzi kokwanelisa umntu obhinqileyo. Eyona nto ilungileyo kubo akufuneki yenziwe ngokubanzi.
Ngamnye unencasa eyahlukileyo kwaye kuthi, kukho imigangatho yabasetyhini abafanelekileyo kwaye ayingabo bonke abadibana nayo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzifune ngokwakho, kuba Kuphela li-12% labemi behlabathi elinelungelo lobudoda. Oko kubeka amanye amadoda ngokufanelekileyo ukuba abelane ngesondo kwimeko efanelekileyo.
Ubungakanani ayisiyiyo yonke into, abasetyhini abaninzi bathanda indoda entle nenomtsalane enemilinganiselo eyamkelekileyo, kwenye enenkangeleko encinci kunye nobukhulu obufanelekileyo. Ukongeza, uninzi lwabo lujonga isikhundla ekuhlaleni okanye imali ukukhetha indoda yabo.
Logama ipenisi yakho ingekho kwinqanaba elingonelisiyo, iya kuba lilungu lobudoda elikhulu kwaye lityebile ngokwaneleyo ukunika ulonwabo. Umlingane wakho uya kuthi akuxelele ukuba ugqibelele kwaye akadingi nto yimbi. Nangona ucinga ngenye indlela, kukho amadoda amaninzi anemilinganiselo emifutshane kunamakhulu. Logama nje ufika kwicala elamkelekileyo, ukwindlela elungileyo. Musa ukucinga ukuba ungaphantsi komnye umntu, kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungayisebenzisa njani kakuhle.