Ukuthetha malunga nokwaneliseka ngokwesondo kuhlala kungumxholo we-taboo kwiindawo ezininzi, ukuthintela imibhangqwana ukuba ithethe ngokukhululekileyo malunga neminqweno kunye neemfuno zabo. Oku kungabikho konxibelelwano kunokukhokelela kunxunguphalo nokungaqondani kulwalamano. Kweli nqaku, siza kuphonononga nzulu njani Ukuqaphela ukuba umfazi wanelisekile ngokwenene kubudlelwane obusondeleyo, obusekwe kwizifundo zesayensi, imiqondiso yomzimba kunye nokuziphatha, kunye nokubaluleka kokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nonxibelelwano olusebenzayo.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo?
Ukwaneliseka kubudlelwane obusondeleyo Ayichaphazeli nje kuphela ubudlelwane besibini, kodwa ikwaphembelela impilo yeemvakalelo neyomzimba yomntu ngamnye. Ngokwezifundo ezahlukeneyo, ubomi obugcweleyo ngokwesondo Inxulumene namanqanaba asezantsi oxinzelelo, ukuzithemba okuphezulu kunye nonxibelelwano olusebenzayo phakathi kwesibini. Ukuqonda ngcono olu nxibelelwano, kuyafaneleka ukwazi ngakumbi malunga umnqweno wesini.
Iimpawu zokuba ibhinqa lanelisekile ngokwesondo
Utshintsho lomzimba kunye neempendulo ezizenzekelayo
- Ukuphefumla nzima: Xa owasetyhini esonwabela ngokupheleleyo isenzo sesondo, isingqi sakhe sokuphefumla siba singaqhelekanga kwaye sikhawuleza.
- Ububomvu besifuba nentamo: Umqondiso ocacileyo wochulumanco kunye nokwaneliseka yi ububomvu beendawo ezithile zomzimba, imveliso yokunyuka kwegazi.
- Ukufinyela kwezihlunu: Ngexesha le-orgasm, imisipha yomzimba, ngakumbi abo bakwindawo ye-pelvic, ikhontrakthi ngokungazithandi.
- Ukuthambisa kwendalo: Ilungu lobufazi elithanjiswe kakuhle libonisa inqanaba eliphezulu lokuvuka kwaye ngokubanzi, ulonwabo olukhulu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Ukuziphatha ngokweemvakalelo kunye nesimo sengqondo emva kwesenzo
- Ukudibana nomzimba emva koko: Ukuba emva kwesondo, umfazi ufuna ukuwolana, ukuwolana, okanye ukwalula ukudibana komzimba, lubonisa ngokucacileyo ulwaneliseko.
- Incoko ekhululekile kwaye eyakhayo: Isimo sengqondo esihle, uncumo kunye nokuhleka emva kokwabelana ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo a uphawu lokonwaba.
- Ukusebenza kubudlelwane obusondeleyo: Ukuba ibhinqa lithatha inyathelo rhoqo, oko kubonisa oko uziva wanelisekile ngokwabelana ngesondo.
Indlela yokuphucula ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kwisibini?
Unxibelelwano olusebenzayo
Thetha ngokuphandle malunga Into esiyithandayo nesingayifuniyo Kubalulekile ukugcina ubomi obupheleleyo bezesondo. Ukuvakalisa iminqweno ngaphandle kwe-taboos okanye uloyiko kwenza kube lula kuwo omabini amalungu esi sibini ukonwabela ukudibana okusondeleyo ngakumbi. Ukwenza oku, luncedo ukwazi indlela yokuphatha umfazi ngokusondeleyo, okunokuphucula umgangatho wobudlelwane.
Ukuhlola kunye nokulinga
Mntu ngamnye unalo ukhetho olwahlukeneyo kwinqanaba lezesondo. Ukuzama amava amatsha, imidlalo okanye iminqweno inokuba yindlela entle yokwazi iqabane lakho ngcono kwaye wakhe unxibelelwano olunamandla. Olu hlolisiso lusenokuquka imiba yomnqweno wesini edla ngokungahoywa.
Izandulela ezibalulekileyo
Foreplay phambi kokuba neentlobano zesini isitshixo ukwandisa ukuvuselela kwaye ufumane ulwaneliseko olukhulu. Ukuqabula, ukuphulula kunye nokuvuselela ngamazwi kungenza umehluko omkhulu kumava esondo. Qiniseka ukuba ujongana nayo nayiphi na imiba enokuthi ichaphazele olo lwalamano lusondeleyo, njengokuphuma kwangaphambi kwexesha.
umba weemvakalelo
Ubudlelwane obuzinzile ngokweemvakalelo kunye nobunempilo buhlala bubonakaliswa kubomi besondo obanelisayo. Thembela kunye ne ukuhloniphana Bakhulisa umnqweno kunye nolonwabo kubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Oku kunokubonwa kwindlela izibini ezizisingatha ngayo iingxaki, njengeengxaki ze-erectile, ezinokuchaphazela ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo.
Ukuqonda kunye nokuqaphela iimpawu zokwaneliseka kumfazi Ayincedi kuphela ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho, kodwa inegalelo kunxibelelwano olukhulu lweemvakalelo kunye nomzimba. Into ephambili kukuthembana, unxibelelwano kunye nokuzimisela ngokuqhubekayo ukuphucula amava obudlelwane obusondeleyo.
