Amadoda ayazi ukuba abafazi ngokubanzi bantsonkothile kwaye kunzima ukuqonda, kodwa kukho izenzo ezithile ezinokukwenza ugqame ebomini babo kwaye womeleze ubudlelwane bakho. Kweli nqaku, sikunika isikhokelo esipheleleyo esineengcebiso ezininzi ngonaphakade jonga kakuhle kunye nabo kwaye wakhe uqhagamshelo olomeleleyo, olonwabe ngakumbi. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ezi ngcebiso zisebenzayo zidlulela ngaphaya kokucacileyo kwaye ziya kukuvumela ukuba wandise iinzame zakho kubudlelwane bokwenyani nobunentsingiselo.
Phendula imiyalezo yabo: Isiseko sonxibelelwano
Ukuphendula kwimiyalezo ethunyelwa ngumfazi luleke kakhulu. Phezu kwako nje ucwangciso lwethu oluxakekileyo, kubalulekile ukubonakalisa umdla, kwanangempendulo emfutshane. Esi senzo sincinci asibonisi nje ukuba uyakhathala, kodwa siqinisekisa kwakhona ukuba ukhona, nokuba uxakekile. Bhala nje isivakalisi esinye okanye ezibini kwaye unyaniseke ukubazisa ukuba unomdla.
Ukumncamisa ngaphandle kwesizathu: Isenzo esinamandla sothando
Ukuncamisa okungalindelekanga kunokuphawula a Umahluko obonakalayo kubudlelwane bakho. Abasetyhini baxabisa izijekulo zothando ezizenzekelayo, kwaye ukwanga okuchukumisayo nokumangalisayo okukhatshwa kukuphululwa ngesandla kunokuqaqambisa imini yabo kunye neveki yabo. Esi senzo sisebenza injongo ephindwe kabini: ukumbonisa ukuba uyabuxabisa ubukho bakhe kwaye ingqalelo yakho igxile kuye ngokupheleleyo, ngaphaya kokwasemzimbeni.
Ukudanisa naye: Indlela eyodwa yokubonakalisa uthando
Abasetyhini bayakuthanda ukudanisa kuba kuyabavumela zivakalise ngendlela eyonwabileyo nekhululekileyo. Nangona amanye amadoda ethandabuza ukuhamba kwindawo yokudanisa, awudingi ukuba yingcali. Ukuba ukhetha ukunqanda useto lukawonke-wonke, ukudanisa ekhaya kunokuba mnandi kwaye kusondelelane. Dlala ingoma oyithandayo kwaye wenze amaxesha akhethekileyo aqinisa unxibelelwano lwakho lweemvakalelo.
Ubugcisa bokumnxibisa
Nxiba kakuhle Ayisiyonto nje yefashoni, kodwa imalunga nokuhambisa umyalezo wokuzikhathalela nokuhoya. Yenza umgudu wokukhetha iimpahla ezicocekileyo, ezinyanyekelwa kakuhle, nezaziyo ukuba uyazithanda. Oku akuthethi nje ukunxiba iimpahla ezintle, kodwa kubonisa ukuba uchithe imizuzu embalwa ukhetha isinxibo sokumchukumisa.
Khumbula imihla ebalulekileyo kunye nee-anecdotes ezingalibalekiyo
Ayikho indlela engcono yokubonisa uthando kunokukhumbula amaxesha abalulekileyo. Ukusuka kwizikhumbuzo ukuya kwiinkcukacha ezincinci ezifana nexesha lokuqala owabelana ngalo ngamava akhethekileyo, ezi nkumbulo zomeleza ubudlelwane. Ukugcina ilog okanye i-ajenda yemihla ebalulekileyo kunokukunceda ucwangcise izinto ezothusayo.
Yabelana ngemisebenzi: Ukudala iinkumbulo kunye
Ixesha elisemgangathweni li ngundoqo nakuluphi na ubudlelwane. Ukwabelana ngemisebenzi kunokomeleza unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo kunye nokudala amava anentsingiselo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka wamkele zonke izinto abazithandayo, kodwa kufuneka ubonise umdla kwezinye. Ngaphezu koko, ukumema ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi oyonwabelayo kunokuvula iingcango zokufumana izinto ezinomdla omnye komnye.
Utyelelo losapho njengesenzo sokubandakanyeka
Bonisa umdla wokwazi wakho familia Ingayinto ebalulekileyo ukubonisa indlela abaluleke ngayo ebomini bakho. Ukongezelela, ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabathandekayo bakhe kunokwandisa unxibelelwano lwakho naye, njengoko uya kumbonisa ukuba uyayixabisa yonke into enentsingiselo kuye. Nangona kunjalo, eli nyathelo kufuneka lithathwe kuphela xa livakala lifanelekile kwaye lingokwemvelo.
Iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo ezenza umahluko
Ukwandisa oku kungasentla, kukho eminye imiba ebalulekileyo onokuthi uyiqwalasele:
- Mxhase kwiiprojekthi zakhe: Ukubonisa umdla kwiinjongo zabo zobuqu okanye zobungcali kuyalomeleza ulwalamano lwakho.
- Vula iincoko: Ukuthetha ngezihloko ezinzulu kunye nokuphulaphula omnye komnye komeleza ukuthembana nonxibelelwano.
- Iintshukumo ezincinci zemihla ngemihla: Ukumshiyela inqaku lothando, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusasa sakhe asithandayo, okanye nje elula "Ndiyakuthanda" kunokwenza imimangaliso.
Ukulandela ezi ngcebiso kunye nokwandisa iinzame zakho kunxibelelwano oluvuleleke ngakumbi, izijekulo ezinyanisekileyo, kunye neenkcukacha ezicingisisiweyo zinokuguqula ubudlelwane. Wonke umzamo omncinci ubalulekile kwaye linyathelo elinye elingakumbi eliya kuqhina oluphilileyo noluhlala luhleli. Ngoku ekubeni unazo ezi zixhobo onazo, zisebenzise kwaye ujonge ukuba izinto zivela njani kubudlelwane bakho. Ungalibali ukusixelela ngeziphumo zakho!
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