El isiporho Yinto eyenzekayo, ngelishwa, ethandwa kakhulu namhlanje. Siyibona ivela kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi, ukusuka emsebenzini, xa usomashishini ozisebenzelayo, kunye newaka leembopheleleko zokuzalisekisa kunye namatyala okuhlawula kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, abathengi bakho bayanyamalala ngobusuku okanye abasebenzi bakho abanomdla, ababonakala benomdla ekuqaleni. ekusebenzeni nawe. Kodwa iyenzeka rhoqo kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kunye nakwezo zazibonakala ngathi ziya kuhlangana njengesibini. Ngaphandle kwesizathu kwaye ngaphandle kwengcaciso, xa ungalindelanga, umntu uyanyamalala, aphume endleleni kwaye anqumle naluphi na uhlobo lonxibelelwano. Kutheni kusenzeka oku? ¿Yintoni isiporho kwaye zeziphi iimpawu zokuba uyenziwa kum?? Siyakuxelela.
Kwabo babandezelekayo, yonke into ayaziwa. Xa abantu bexambulisana okanye besilwa, kuyaqondakala ukuba umsindo okanye ukungonwabi kunokukhokelela ekungavisisani, kodwa kuthekani xa yonke into ihamba kakuhle (okanye kubonakala ngathi) kwaye, ngequbuliso, lonke iphupha olidalileyo kunye naloo mntu. kwaye izicwangciso zakho ezidibeneyo ziyanyamalala, ngokungathi ngomlingo? Umlingo ongalunganga, kodwa umlingo nangona kunjalo. Ngokungathi ubuphupha iphupha elimnandi kwaye ngoku uvukile kwinyani eyahlukileyo kakhulu.
Siyazi ukuba imeko kunye ne-panorama yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ozifumanayo xa uvula amehlo akho zinokuba buhlungu. Kodwa yimeko ebisenzeka rhoqo kumaxesha akutshanje kwaye asinakukhetha ngaphandle kokuyamkela kwaye sifunde ukuphila nayo. Nangona oku kusenokungakuncedi kangako, masikuxelele ukuba ingxaki ikumntu owenze lo msebenzi. isiporho hayi wena. Uyaphoswa!
Yintoni isiporho
Ukuze ungalahleki endleleni, into yokuqala kufuneka ucace ngayo yintoni isiporho ngokuchanekileyo. Kuba le ndlela yokuziphatha inokubhidaniswa ngokulula nezinye izimo zengqondo ezingenanto yakwenza nalo mcimbi.
Ukuba uyazi ubuncinci besiNgesi, igama elithi “"isiporho" Isenokubonakala iqhelekile kuwe kwaye, eneneni, eli gama libhekisa kwiziporho kwaye indlela yokuziphatha esithetha ngayo ibandakanya ukunyamalala njengesiporho kwaye ngaphandle kokushiya umkhondo wokuba ulandele umkhondo.
Kukho iindlela ezimbini zomoya ozibonakalisayo. Enye yazo kukuba sithethile: uqala a ubudlelwane babini eyona nto isichaphazela kakhulu, izinto ziye zahamba, kubonakala ngathi ubudlelwane ngoku bufanele ukubhengezwa, uqala ukuziva ulungile, ujonge ukuzinza kunye naye kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, bam! Ubethwa ngenqindi ebusweni okanye entliziyweni, nto leyo ebuhlungu ngakumbi. Umntu akasakuniki iimpawu zobomi.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umgama unobuqili ngakumbi kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe, umntu uyaziqhelanisa nawe kancinci kancinci. “Andikwazi ukudibana namhlanje”, “ndixakekile kule mpelaveki”, “uxolo kodwa ndidibana nomama”... Alikho nexesha lokuthatha ifowni okanye lokuphendula imiyalezo yakho kaWhatsApp kwaye ngoko ixesha liyahamba de ekugqibeleni ucinge ukuba bakwenze waba isiporho. Mhlawumbi oku kwenzekile kuwe ngaphambili, nokuba ubungazi ukuba leliphi eli gama linomdla. Ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa! Amaxhoba sele emaninzi.
Kutheni abantu bephupha?
Sikhe sayikhankanya ngaphambili, kodwa ukuba usenayo loo pinch esiswini sakho ucinga ukuba impazamo inokuba kuwe kwaye wenze into engalunganga okanye unesiphako ukuze isiqingatha sakho esingcono siguquke sibe yilamuni emuncu kwaye ikushiyile. ibolile , sididekile kwaye ngaphandle kokukhohlisa, siyaphinda: ayilotyala lakho.
Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba emva kwale phantasms yeemvakalelo into efihliweyo kukungavuthwa okukhulu, ngenxa yokuba umntu akakwazi ukujamelana nobunzima beemvakalelo kwaye unquma ukubaleka. Ekugqibeleni, ngubani owenza isiporho Ungumntu ongakhathaliyo, owoyikayo xa ejamelene neengxabano. Sonke siyazi ukuba iingxabano ebomini azinakuphepheka, ekubeni sonke sinongquzulwano oluthile lwemihla ngemihla yaye, indlela esijamelana ngayo nalo, luya kuxhomekeka ekubeni singabantu abonwabileyo okanye abangonwabanga kusini na.
Abo benza ngolu hlobo abanalo uvelwano kwaye badla ngokuba ngabantu abanochuku abangakwaziyo ukugcina inkohliso. Baphuma eluthandweni ngokukhawuleza, badikwe kwaye bahlukane nayo yonke into. Asingabo bodwa abakwenzayo oko, kodwa kwimeko yabo, abaniki ngcaciso. Azibonwa kwakhona, ngaphandle nje kwamabona-ndenzile obomi.
Baleka aba bantu!
Kwixhoba kukho ukubandezeleka. Kuba loo mvakalelo yokuncamathela sele izalwe isenza sibe neemvakalelo ezininzi. Akuzukuba lula ukohlukana nayo yonke into ngoku njengoko senzile isiporho sangoku. Kodwa kufuneka siqaphele ukuba ngabantu abanje asizukwazi ukuya kude kakhulu kwaye eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukubeka umgama phambi kokuba bophule iintliziyo zethu.
Musa ukunyanzelisa ukuba benze ntoni kuwe isiporho. Ngalo lonke ixesha shiya ucango luvuliwe ukuze nabani na ofuna ukuhamba ahambe kwaye kuphela abo bakuxabisayo bahlale ecaleni kwakho. Ezi zizo eziya kukunika ulonwabo noxolo oludingayo.
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba unesiporho
- Las iimpawu abazenzayo kuwe isiporho icacile:
- Umntu akaphenduli kwimiyalezo okanye kwiifowuni zakho.
- Ngamanye amaxesha, yeka ukukulandela kwimidiya yoluntu.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba bakuthintele.
- Loo mntu akasafuni kudibana nawe. Nguye kuphela osaziyo isizathu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akasazi naye. Xa umntu embuza, mhlawumbi uya kwenza iingxoxo ezibuthathaka ukuze akubek’ ityala ngesimo sakhe sengqondo. Ungaziqhathi, bubuxoki bonke.
Ukwazi yonke into emthethweni yintoni isiporho y iimpawu zokuba uyenza kuwe, nguwe ogqibayo. Sele sikunike iingcebiso.